Re: [boost] [OFF] Inclusive language (Was: [review][beast] Review of Beast starts today : July 1 - July 10)

-----Original Message----- From: Boost [mailto:boost-bounces@lists.boost.org] On Behalf Of David Sankel via Boost Sent: 17 July 2017 11:31 To: boost@lists.boost.org Cc: David Sankel Subject: Re: [boost] [OFF] Inclusive language (Was: [review][beast] Review of Beast starts today : July 1 - July 10)

On Sat, Jul 8, 2017 at 1:26 PM, Vinícius dos Santos Oliveira via Boost < boost@lists.boost.org> wrote:

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2017-07-01 21:54 GMT+02:00 Vinnie Falco via Boost :

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Such language is non-inclusive and diminishes the stature of the list (in my opinion).

So what? What's the problem of non inclusive languages?

I've learned a lot about inclusive language issues in the past year. In a technical talk I was discussing "The Mythical Man Month" and, unintentionally, repeatedly used the word "man" in the sense of "a human individual" instead of something more-specific and less-loaded, like "developer". This stirred up a lot of controversy and I received both well-intentioned feedback noting the issue and mean-spirited attacks. While I dislike being attacked, the part I was most disappointed in was that, for many, the content of the talk was overshadowed by the political controversy.

My interested is in communicating technical opinion, and, without judging positively or negatively those with sensitivities, I acknowledge that communication is more effective when it isn't sidetracked by discussions of how offensive the wording is. I try my best these days to avoid using language that ignites distractions, although I still fail occasionally.

Similarly, when I'm offended by the way some things are said by others, I find the best approach to be silent, tolerant, and acknowledge there are many different backgrounds. This way, the communication channels stay open. Of course, if I'm close with someone and I know the feedback will be well-received, I would gladly help them with their communication by letting them know privately that something-or-other may ignite sensitivities.

I agree with David's thoughtful summary. Silent tolerance is the least-worst policy, even in the face of wilful misinterpretation of the word "man". But, for the record, aggressive insistence on so-called 'non-inclusive language' is also very offensive to me. Boost is, and should continue to be, entirely inclusive, gender-blind and, most of all, tolerant . Paul --- Paul A. Bristow Prizet Farmhouse Kendal UK LA8 8AB +44 (0) 1539 561830